The title of this book Outside Looking In, is appropriate. It was suggested by MetroPost publisher Alex Ray Pal and gratefully agreed to by journalist Michael O'Riordan. Being an expat living in the Philippines and observing life here created a situation where he truly was an outsider looking in on Philippine society and on the behavior and lives of the many expats who live in the Dumaguete area.

O'Riordan combines traditional Irish wit and a raucous sense of humor with harsh but true comments about the painful realities of life here. Although he came here as a stranger, it's clear as the book evolves, that he began to develop an affection for the Philippines and its people. Eventually those emotions turned into a form of love combined with respect and gratitude for his life here.

His directness may sometimes make for uncomfortable reading, but it adds to the enjoyment of reading these compelling articles .

O'Riordan's integrity is evident throughout the book. This is shown by his willingness to reveal embarrassing mistakes he's made, by his need to express the challenges, the joys, and sadness of everyday life here for Filipinos and also for expats.

Outside Looking In is a must read for any expat living in the Philippines or considering retiring here. The author is painfully direct in discussing errors he's made. These are the same experiences most expats have had or will have. Importantly, he also provides references to a company that assists expats in all aspects of their lives here. Their website is https: //vcg.ph

Some of the include legal services, visa advice from a Philippine Retirement Authority (PRA) accredited company, real estate purchase and sale, relationship advice with Pinays including proactive planning to protect against future problems if/when the relationship falls apart, setting up a business, and much more.

Despite the serious topics discussed there also much humor in the book. This makes it interesting to read. So, do yourself a favor, for an intriguing and honest look at life in the Philippines from an expats perspective, treat yourself to this thoroughly enjoyable view of one expat's experiences here over five years. You'll be delighted you did.

DIANA BANOGON BUGEYA is an activist who lives both in Canada and the Philippines. She is a regular contributor to the MetroPost.